Abuse can also be verbal, emotional, and physical. Even if your partner is charming and sweet at first, things can change and they can change fast. The nature of dating violence can be physical, emotional or sexual.
Physical — When a partner is hit, shoved, kicked or physically assaulted in any manner.
Emotional — Threatening a partner or harming his/her sense of self-worth. Examples include name calling, shaming, bullying, embarrassing on purpose or keeping him/her away from friends and family.
Sexual — This is forcing a partner to engage in a sex act when the partner does not or cannot consent.
Know the Warning Signs:
Isolation from friends and family
Angry outbursts
Projection of anger onto others
Threats of violence
Jealousy
Violent behavior towards animals or others
Controlling behavior
Belittlement
Things to know as a parent:
Reiterate to your children to avoid drugs and alcohol.Drugs and alcohol compromise one’s ability to make smart decisions and to escape dangerous situations. While under the influence, someone may take risks they wouldn’t usually take with their body, car and general safety in general. Keep an eye on your glass at all times! Many teens are sexually assaulted after someone slips a powerful sedative drug into whatever they’re drinking. Resisting the urge to drink is the best way to prevent being assaulted and(or) raped.
Set a Curfew :Know the curfew is in your town and set a time that your family is comfortable with.
Recap on the Sex Talk: Make sure you’ve had “the talk” with your teen. Even if you’ve had the talk, have a recap and let them know of your expectations, S.T.D’s, and the consequences of underage sex.
“NO means NO”It is important to teach your children (both sexes) what “NO” really means and the consequences if it isn’t honored.
Have an Exit Plan :If your child is out on a date and things aren’t going right or they are not comfortable, be sure you have a plan in place to get them out quickly and without confrontation. If you don’t have a plan, develop one beforehand.
Dating Bill of Rights:
You have the RIGHT to:
Refuse a date
Refuse affection or sexual advances at any time and under any circumstances
Be physically and emotionally safe
Ask for emotional support
Be treated with respect
Refuse to do anything uncomfortable
Have a life and friends outside of the relationship
Have money or property not controlled by your partner
Have thoughts or feelings that are different from your partner
Live without fear of your partner
Leave the relationship at any time
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